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You have plenty of Fi. But whether or not you're going to express that to anyone is a different story, especially if you really are an INTJ. Emotions are strictly private unless it's a deep S.O. or something.
Ni:
Healthy Te
Healthy Te should turn Ni’s attention towards the external world. Through Te, Ni can make better judgments and expand the sense of self through examining useful and effective principles and standards. By using more objective standards to evaluate situations, Ni can find better ways to adapt subjective vision to external demands. It is especially important for Ni to examine enough perspectives with enough depth to arrive at more accurate intuitions about the world.
Healthy Te should serve to compensate for inferior Se by helping Ni to understand why it is important to gather more factual data and evidence to verify one’s intuitions about how the world works, rather than immediately rejecting certain perspectives in favor of keeping with one’s established vision or ideals. When Ni can understand the benefits of using intuition to achieve goals with greater skill, confidence, and efficiency, INTJs will feel less isolated and more connected to the universal truths of the world. Ni should realize that it is necessary to engage fully with the external world because intuition is firmly rooted in the tangible reality of the present situation, rather than compulsively deferring to some empty conceptual understanding of the world/future.
Healthy Te can also enhance the ability to reach greater levels of insight and competence by making Ni more focused and systematic in how it learns and adapts to situations.
Unhealthy Te
When Ni resists Te, it closes itself off to understanding how things actually work in the real world and, as a result, severely restricts itself to situations that are comfortable or aligned with subjective vision. These INTJs will tend to behave in ways that seem isolative, indecisive, or needlessly defensive, ignoring important areas of life that require further development.
When Ni overindulges Te, it becomes excessively critical or controlling because it is too desperate to achieve order and efficiency. These INTJs are prone to being aggressively judgmental, relentlessly driven, or taking on too much responsibility, failing to care for their own or other people’s well-being.
Whether resisting or overindulging, both cases exemplify immature ways of exerting superficial control over the real or imagined threats of the external world. Long term unhealthy Te behaviors will eventually lead to imperviousness to outside influence, feelings of incompetence or worthlessness, and emotional isolation.
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Any of this connect with you?
Hope this helps, kachow!
You have plenty of Fi. But whether or not you're going to express that to anyone is a different story, especially if you really are an INTJ. Emotions are strictly private unless it's a deep S.O. or something.
Seems like Fi empathy there. I don't quite understand what you mean by being too F to be an INTJ. INTJs can be quite sensitive and emotional, they just don't express it very much. As quoted here:
You just confirmed it. Outside opinion pointing out you keep your emotions strictly to yourself. Even in your facial expressions.
Classic Ni.
I will continue under assumption you're INTJ. And I wouldn't exactly say you're arrogant, but INTJs are confident in what they know as well as what they don't know.
Yeah, Ti is all about logical accuracy and precision.
Ni:
- focus: observing context and interpreting meaning
- explores meaningful patterns from different perspectives
- cultivated through making inferences based on vaguely familiar patterns
- maintains a flexible and interpretive approach to life, carefully filtering words, concepts, signs, symbols, metaphors, abstractions in order to construct a personalized vision/theory of the world
- values knowledge/objects that have personal symbolic significance or predictive power (tend to have interests that strike others as unpredictable)
- driven to seek out meaning, truth, insight, knowledge
- makes decisions based on extrapolating future developments
- defines true knowledge in terms of understanding how meanings, perspectives, or standpoints can be manipulated or changed (mental constructs are real but arbitrarily defined, therefore a change in definition can produce a change in perspective)
- knows that exploring perception itself: 1) strengthens the power of imagination and reveals the boundaries/limitations of what is known, 2) makes progress in the external world by pinpointing and questioning the (faulty) underlying assumptions that underpin belief systems, 3) anchors the self by imbuing personally significant concepts, ideals, values, or theories with a reality of their own, 4) reduces conflict by honoring truth, authenticity, and long term vision
- defines social relationships in terms of realizing “ideals” (how people live up to their latent potential)
- interprets social relationships through meaningful actions that affirm the quality/strength of the relationship
- inspires others by being the focal point of people’s sense of mystery regarding the unknown or unexplored aspects of human existence
Healthy Te
Healthy Te should turn Ni’s attention towards the external world. Through Te, Ni can make better judgments and expand the sense of self through examining useful and effective principles and standards. By using more objective standards to evaluate situations, Ni can find better ways to adapt subjective vision to external demands. It is especially important for Ni to examine enough perspectives with enough depth to arrive at more accurate intuitions about the world.
Healthy Te should serve to compensate for inferior Se by helping Ni to understand why it is important to gather more factual data and evidence to verify one’s intuitions about how the world works, rather than immediately rejecting certain perspectives in favor of keeping with one’s established vision or ideals. When Ni can understand the benefits of using intuition to achieve goals with greater skill, confidence, and efficiency, INTJs will feel less isolated and more connected to the universal truths of the world. Ni should realize that it is necessary to engage fully with the external world because intuition is firmly rooted in the tangible reality of the present situation, rather than compulsively deferring to some empty conceptual understanding of the world/future.
Healthy Te can also enhance the ability to reach greater levels of insight and competence by making Ni more focused and systematic in how it learns and adapts to situations.
Unhealthy Te
When Ni resists Te, it closes itself off to understanding how things actually work in the real world and, as a result, severely restricts itself to situations that are comfortable or aligned with subjective vision. These INTJs will tend to behave in ways that seem isolative, indecisive, or needlessly defensive, ignoring important areas of life that require further development.
When Ni overindulges Te, it becomes excessively critical or controlling because it is too desperate to achieve order and efficiency. These INTJs are prone to being aggressively judgmental, relentlessly driven, or taking on too much responsibility, failing to care for their own or other people’s well-being.
Whether resisting or overindulging, both cases exemplify immature ways of exerting superficial control over the real or imagined threats of the external world. Long term unhealthy Te behaviors will eventually lead to imperviousness to outside influence, feelings of incompetence or worthlessness, and emotional isolation.
[HR][/HR]
Any of this connect with you?
Hope this helps, kachow!