[Noralecter]

Hi I often feel like I have a contradictory soul. Pretty sure I'm Ni+Fe but not sure which order. Also my enneagram is 8w7. Any questions I can answer to help decipher myself?

 

[spaceynyc]

Hi I often feel like I have a contradictory soul. Pretty sure I'm Ni+Fe but not sure which order. Also my enneagram is 8w7. Any questions I can answer to help decipher myself?

most people will tell you that anything is possible when it comes to typing.. but i'd say 8w7 leans heavily towards ENFJ over INFJ due to the ENFJ's Choleric temperament.. INFJs tend to be more melancholy and not nearly as assertive due to lower Fe and Se. but these are all generalities, there's always the outlier of course.

 

[spaceynyc]

to figure out which one you favor just pay attention to the way your mind thinks in certain situations with other people, how quickly do you come to decisions on how to deal with people? if you tend to visualize an outcome for a while before acting, that suggests Ni over Fe.. If you have immediate diplomatic reactions to social situations and feel more confident in your decisions and people skills/tactics this suggests Fe over Ni

 

[Noralecter]

Really depends on the situation.

I don't think I'm as tactful as ENFJs appear to be. Sometimes I put my foot in it lol. Like I will say something and then apologise :/ or overthink what I say/ feel and correct it- try to be more logical.

Hm.