[Susanna]

Both. I think it is both. For a while I thought mostly a blessing and now I wonder.... You have come a long way, wow.

 

[Susanna]

I think being an INFJ is a blessing because of my desire to help people. I think being INFJ is a curse because of my desire to help people. I have spent a lot of time in this life spinning my wheels trying to help people. I am just now realizing that I cannot do someone elses work for them. I also chose to help people in ways that have allowed them to postpone their own ability to help themselves. So I love the compassion I have and am now looking at it differently now and I have been soulsearching recently - it is wonderful.