[Jasette]

I think it's one of the biggest blessings God has given me. I'd never be anyone different. Except maybe Anne Hathaway...

 

[Hokahey]

I think it's one of the biggest blessings God has given me. I'd never be anyone different. Except maybe Anne Hathaway...

I agree with the first statement, we are who we are. We provide balance to an unbalanced equation.

 

[StevieRay]

Hey there my friend I've worked with people in the special opps community in the army; and my brother has done some black opps for the army as well... Good to have you here on the forums!

 

[diverged]

I cried when I first read about the INFJ description also. It made me feel like I wasn't so alone and that my whole being made sense somehow for the first time. It's still a struggle but at least now I appreciate myself a little more.

 

[Raichan]

It's a blessing when used to guide people and help them realize their own feelings when we do before them.

It's a curse when we tend to know too much via our Ni.

 

[Dark Raven]

A blessing in disguise roud:

 

[Vaan]

well hey there byrd it seems that we are brothers in arms soon then, after this year ill be joining RMC (australia) to become an officer (either in a commando regiment or bushmaster cavalry regiment) in the australian army, i know that im a warrior inside too, remember that INFJ's are also called the protectors

 

[EmmaLeigh]

I think it depends on how well you learn to deal with it. When I was growing up, it was a curse. No one understood me except my mom (also INFJ), so I had few friends in my peer group. Now I consider it a blessing. It opens up so many doors to me now that I know how to put it to use.

And just a point of interest -- you write like an INFJ who has spent a lot of time on the ins and outs of deep grammar (emphasis on the INFJ part -- the lack of deep grammar knowlege isn't a biggy). You write in long sentences, something that I believe to be fairly typical. I actually write in much shorter sentences now than I used to, because I have spent a lot of time perfecting my writing and my teacher suggested that to be an imperfection (I'm not so sure).

Congrats for finding yourself! It's a liberating moment, isn't it?