I've read on this forum that many INFJs do not like clubbing. I myself am not an experienced clubber (i've gone only 2 times so far), but I dont hate it. However there is one thing that I really do not like: It seems like people you meet there wont want to know you genuinely, they just want to either make use of you or merely get sexual satisfaction from you.
I guess it's common for clubbers to make up stories (an euphemism for lying?) about where they study, or their age? I would either tell the truth or not mention it. My ENTP friend says she might also do that too esp. in foreign cities because what happens in __ stays in __. Well i know it's hard when people ask you something but you dont want them to know which is when you might need to make up sth, but people actually make up things before being asked questions. and it seems like they make up things so to look "cooler" :shocked:
I know people always say what happens in __ stays in __; that people just wanna have fun, dont take it serious... so some peeps refuse to be frds with you on facebook afterwards, or add you just because they want to get that pic of him in your album (this is from my limited experience though) - i feel appalled. maybe im just new to clubbing and this is just the normal thing to do, but for me, I think I'd rather treat with people with genuineness...
I guess it's common for clubbers to make up stories (an euphemism for lying?) about where they study, or their age? I would either tell the truth or not mention it. My ENTP friend says she might also do that too esp. in foreign cities because what happens in __ stays in __. Well i know it's hard when people ask you something but you dont want them to know which is when you might need to make up sth, but people actually make up things before being asked questions. and it seems like they make up things so to look "cooler" :shocked:
I know people always say what happens in __ stays in __; that people just wanna have fun, dont take it serious... so some peeps refuse to be frds with you on facebook afterwards, or add you just because they want to get that pic of him in your album (this is from my limited experience though) - i feel appalled. maybe im just new to clubbing and this is just the normal thing to do, but for me, I think I'd rather treat with people with genuineness...