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So I figure this is a topic that many people here could relate to. But how have you dealt with exes? I found that the emotional attachment is the hardest to overcome. Nowadays, I am just a lot more cautious and reserved, so I get less attached to people at first. But in all honesty, I'd say that even though I act "over them" and do not display any outward signs about this to others around me, the emotional attachment can get overwhelming sometimes: you know nostalgia, random memories, missing that connection together, etc.
*Note: what I wrote above about not displaying outward signs is probably part of my desire of not wanting to be seen weak as others around me.*
For those of you who have experienced this, any advice or insight? I'm sure everyone experiences things differently, so feel free to discuss aspects you encountered that I didn't mention above. I've only had one -ex so I'm not really an expert on this, but just some thoughts on the matter is all. And for those of you currently struggling with this, hope this thread can help y'all!
*Note: what I wrote above about not displaying outward signs is probably part of my desire of not wanting to be seen weak as others around me.*
For those of you who have experienced this, any advice or insight? I'm sure everyone experiences things differently, so feel free to discuss aspects you encountered that I didn't mention above. I've only had one -ex so I'm not really an expert on this, but just some thoughts on the matter is all. And for those of you currently struggling with this, hope this thread can help y'all!