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I don't know what to do about this.
My INFJ female friend is married to her husband. They live very far away from me in another state. Sparks have died down because INFJ has achieved higher social value than husband, while husband has been acting childish with a dead-end job. Also, the relationship has gone downhill because of major incompatibility issues. The couple has a small child together.
Recently, INFJ friend had sex with the best friend of her husband. She told me it was the first and will also be the last time something like this will ever happen, and that it happened when both were drunk. She has also said that she doesn't really feel guilty about what she did, but she does feel guilty about not feeling guilty about it.
I'm the only one she's told this to, because I live far away and have an objective perspective on things.
Problem is, I've never cheated on anyone, and this is actually the very first time I've even personally known someone to have cheated. It makes me feel a bit sick. I didn't condemn her directly, but at the same time, what the fuck? Aren't INFJs supposed to be more saintly than the average crowd? How am I even supposed to feel about this? What should I do?
Discuss.
My INFJ female friend is married to her husband. They live very far away from me in another state. Sparks have died down because INFJ has achieved higher social value than husband, while husband has been acting childish with a dead-end job. Also, the relationship has gone downhill because of major incompatibility issues. The couple has a small child together.
Recently, INFJ friend had sex with the best friend of her husband. She told me it was the first and will also be the last time something like this will ever happen, and that it happened when both were drunk. She has also said that she doesn't really feel guilty about what she did, but she does feel guilty about not feeling guilty about it.
I'm the only one she's told this to, because I live far away and have an objective perspective on things.
Problem is, I've never cheated on anyone, and this is actually the very first time I've even personally known someone to have cheated. It makes me feel a bit sick. I didn't condemn her directly, but at the same time, what the fuck? Aren't INFJs supposed to be more saintly than the average crowd? How am I even supposed to feel about this? What should I do?
Discuss.