I am sorry to hear that. :sad:I was married to an ISTJ for 25 years. He never showed emotions and couldn't deal with mine. He was dependable, hard working and followed the rules. But we had nothing in common and the kids couldn't even get close to him. We are now separated.
A few INFJs seem to be having problems with their relationships with ISTJs. My fiance is an ISTJ and to be honest I don't think either of us could have found a more suitable person to be with. I wonder if enneagram type has anything to do with it as well as standard personality types?