I suppose I could say I've related in the past. But today things seem a lot different.
Acceptance, as cheesy as it may be, is one of the first steps to understanding and moving forward.
'I can only do what I can do,' has been a phrase lately that my father has enlightened me with, although he only sees it as what it is, I see more to it. There's limitations to yourself, and don't stretch yourself out too far... like dough, the more you stretch it, the more it sags and tears. Yes it's strong at first, until you reach it's point of breakage, and you can feel it, but not see it until it's right there ripping.
The weight of it can be that of air, if you see it as such. Take a step back, a breath, and pause for a moment to see things at play, shift if neccessary, then move forward. Sometimes challenges are easy to face head on, others however, need to be approached differently.
Trust plays an important role, but it's not the problem. It's hard to describe and explain. If you're looking for a confident yourself, seek for them, they are there. Your family, your friends. However, they may not understand the complexity of the issue or problem you wish to share. That's okay. They have a different point of view that sometimes helps lead the way to an answer, sometimes they'll spark an idea that'll help. Likewise, open a couple of layers of trust to your most trusted friend or family member. It may make you feel vulnerable, but it will be rewarding.
To get, you must give. Quite like the universal balance.
I'm just rambling now...............