First off are you saying you are having a problem? I have been in a relationship with my opposite. We dated for 4 months then she moved back home which was far away. We knew she was going but we did it anyway. I don't regret it and it was wonderful. In this case I had no problems with her being the opposite of me. It took some effort on my part to get her out of her shell at times but knowing MBTI made it easier. Me being ESTP was good too cause gettign people to talk is somewhat natural for me.