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Im desperate here please help Im like going crazy with worry..

The thing is I test Infj myers briggs AND (EII) Infj on socionics (which is odd but I dont identify with supposidly corresponding Infp on either). My strongest functions are Fi Ni Ti Se. Years ago my husband took the test and got Entp. Before we were married I was delighted and read stories how we were the soulmate mbti match. Now that I took the socionic test and came up with Infj results also Im terrified because it says our relations are of supervision. This relation says that is very damaging to the Entp even can cause mental illness? I lead with Fi and thats supposed to be his PolR? Anyways my question is how can I be careful that he always feels respected. What exactly doEs EII do that hurts ILE? He rarely ever shows any negative feelings.. so everything seems good.. but now I HATE socionics its making me crazy paranoid. It even says the supervisee (Entp) usually wont voice any hurt and just let it eat at him. Omgsh... I dont want this to happen. What are some examples of an Fi dom hurting an ILE? As a christian I try to always trust him to lead and be submissive to him.. do you think that helps us in a relation where Im supposidly the supervisor? Thanks for any help Im literally going crazy here and wishing I was just an SEI lady because thats his dual.
 

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thanks.. however he told me a while after I had him take the test he didnt really believe in these things.. so if I talked to him he would worry that Im just going kinda crazy.. which I think maybe I am :'(
 

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when ever I ask him how he feels in our marriage he says really happy sometimes he says I make him the happiest man it the world. So I guess I need to TRUST that he would vocalize any problems (unlike it says in Supervision relations where the supervisee supresses any negative emotions and lets it eat away at him) :'(
 

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when ever I ask him how he feels in our marriage he says really happy sometimes he says I make him the happiest man it the world. So I guess I need to TRUST that he would vocalize any problems (unlike it says in Supervision relations where the supervisee supresses any negative emotions and lets it eat away at him) :'(
Pretty much ENTPs like using physical intimacy to display affection. So long as you and him stay physically close and you don't nag the living shit out of him, it will all be well. (Asking questions about how he's doing isn't nagging :))
 

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thanks thats actually really helpful info! When we had our engagement counseling he said his love language was physical! I didnt really know mine but he guessed words.. I totally forgot about this haha :)
 
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