INFJ: Newbie to the forum. Just wanna say hello.

Vanish said:

cool, and yea i guess your right, i do tend to look at my weaknesses more than i do my strengths. I feel unattractive because no girls find me attractive. I cant keep a conversation with a girl for long because i run into topics that require too much thinking. I plan to stick around because i feel this is a good place to meet others like me. It kind of sucks knowing that 1% of the worlds population has this personality type. We are always in the background. I feel like i think more thoroughly.

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Welcome! I'm not an INFJ but I just wanted to tell you something that a close friend of mine tells me anytime I have problems relating to guys I go out on dates with. If these girls you're talking to are unable to hold their own in a conversation that "requires too much thinking" then clearly they aren't right for you. I'd assume you're searching for someone who you can connect with on a deeper level, one that goes further than appearances, so why waste your time dwelling on those who have no interest in doing the same?

Anyhoo, glad you joined, Vanish! :happy: