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INFJs - dont you hate it when people blame you for being upset like its your fault?

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i hate when arrogant , condescending people look at you when you're upset , and instead of being all kind and angelic like " its ok buddy , ill make it ok " they act like arrogant jerks and theyre like " OMG IM SO MUCH BETTER THAN YOU , YOU ARE REALLY EVIL FOR BEING UPSET , YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY , IF YOURE NOT HAPPY YOU HAVE TO GO ON DRUGS BECAUSE IF YOURE NOT HAPPY YOU DONT BELONG IN OUR SOCIETY , ITS YOUR FAULT THAT YOU HAVE PROBLEMS JUST FORGET ABOUT IT AND IT WILL BE OK "
I HATE when people do this . Most psychiatrists are like that if you notice . They NEVER have a compassionate nice expression on their face , they always have a daunting , condescending intimidating expression on their faces , like theyre saying " you are a very bad person for being upset , you have to be happy or well arrest you"
They NEVER look kind or sympathetic , they always look like they think theyre some sort of God who knows everything and that you are an ignorant uninformed person who deserves to be imprisoned
dont worry though , they "care"
well of course they do, how else could they make money , money they use to party like a materialistic jackass and dance on the graves of their ten million victims
also whenever i express this view to them ( obviously in a calmer way like " why cant you just be sympathetic for once " they NEVER take the time to analyze the words . Instead they act like mentally impaired monkeys and all they focus on is the tone , and they say something stupid like " oh no you dont agree with us ! thats bad ! " theyre like animals who dont know human language and take all insults the same because theyre too stupid to analyze the actual philosophical meaning behind the words so they just focus on stupid stuff like " omg youre mad ! that is like so totally not good ! time to pump you full of drugs , la de da de da "
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Solution: find and talk to someone who understands. Professional or not. If people do not understand they are more likely to dismiss it without thinking about it or trying to empathize with you. Sympathizing is different than empathizing, you want empathizing.
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