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INFJs What are your pet peeves?
What are some things you find aggravating
What are some things you find aggravating
LOL.. Silly.. It's an NF subforum.. NFs are focused on human relations.. They rationalize using subjective criteria. Of course people are what's going to piss them off.. What value is there in getting upset over objects and physical situations?.. Those are just facts of life.. But people are complex, puzzling, fascinatingly irritating creatures who present by far the most variables to work with it comes to pet peeves.. They are a virtual gold mine source for pet peeves ..Wow a lot of you get ticked off with the behaviours of others, eh?
People don't tend to aggravate me much. I can tolerate a lot of BS, walk away, and continue on with my day unaffected. The only time I really get bugged by others is when after I have asked them to leave me alone for awhile they continue to seek me out.
My pet peeves:
* the phone ringing when I sit down to eat.
* the phone ringing, period.
* going into the library after having found the perfect book in the online library catalogue only to find it not on the shelf.
I find the last to be especially annoying. I will look around the entire shelf hoping in vain that someone has just put it down somewhere.Wow a lot of you get ticked off with the behaviours of others, eh?
People don't tend to aggravate me much. I can tolerate a lot of BS, walk away, and continue on with my day unaffected. The only time I really get bugged by others is when after I have asked them to leave me alone for awhile they continue to seek me out.
My pet peeves:
* the phone ringing when I sit down to eat.
* the phone ringing, period.
* going into the library after having found the perfect book in the online library catalogue only to find it not on the shelf.
oh my gosh yesssssss. That's the worst.- When I heat up a plate of Pizza Rolls, get halfway through and bite down on one to find out it's cold. Bitch-ass microwave, how about you heat the ones in the middle too?! I was thoroughly enjoying my Pizza Rolls!!
IDK if you're an INFJ or not...People are complex, puzzling and fascinating but that is exactly why there is no reason to get irritated by them. Studying people is by far my favourite pastime. I get great satisfaction out of weaving together the array of intricacies on the spectrum of human minds. Believe me. I suppose because of the amount of time I spend puzzling over people, analysing them and trying to understand them on a deeper level, I rarely get bothered by their idiosyncrasies. When people do certain things that I may not entirely agree with, I am usually intuitively aware of why they have just behaved that way. I don't hold their behavioural patterns against them. I learn from their behavioural patterns. I watch, I absorb, I gather data and then I move away to process it in a place where I can remain impartial. If I am honest, the only time I get aggravated with people to the point where I feel like I might lose my shit is when they are unfairly judgemental to the point of narrow-mindedness. Usually I am able to feel out why they are behaving in such a manner which in turn stops me from reacting negatively to them. How can anyone judge another person's behaviour when they can understand the root cause of that person's behaviour? Once you understand the cause of the behaviour, dealing with the effect comes easily through empathy. I'm able to empathise with the person even though I may completely disagree with the way they're behaving.
I don't blame the person for ringing the phone because how were they to know that I didn't want to take a phone call? I blame the incessant noise.LOL.. Silly.. It's an NF subforum.. NFs are focused on human relations.. They rationalize using subjective criteria. Of course people are what's going to piss them off.. What value is there in getting upset over objects and physical situations?.. Those are just facts of life.. But people are complex, puzzling, fascinatingly irritating creatures who present by far the most variables to work with it comes to pet peeves.. They are a virtual gold mine source for pet peeves ..![]()
And.... If you think about it.. What's behind that phone ringing or that book not being updated in that online catalog? It's peeeeeople!!!! *Done in Charlton Heston voice*
I have paid to take an MBTI test and was labelled INFJ. Every time I have taken the online tests my results have indicated INFJ. I hate labels, though.IDK if you're an INFJ or not...
I hate it when I microwave an egg-roll and once I bite into it, it erupts with molten oil in such force not seen since Krakatoa. Scalding me and everyone in the room. The hospital bills that follow an egg roll is just about as unpleasant. Lol.- People who make an emotional fuss about things that are stupid things to make a fuss over about (drama queens).
- People who take no accountability for their actions and themselves and expect other people to take care of things for them.
- Narrow-minded people who refuse to accept any other input for really stupid reasons. I'm going to tie moral objectivity into this. For the most part, people who use morals as pure logic really makes me want to punch walls. "Why are you vegetarian?" "It's wrong to eat animals." "Why?" "Because it is!" :dry:
- When I heat up a plate of Pizza Rolls, get halfway through and bite down on one to find out it's cold. Bitch-ass microwave, how about you heat the ones in the middle too?! I was thoroughly enjoying my Pizza Rolls!!
In general, stupid, incompetent, and lazy people. Though I can't gander to think who wouldn't be aggravated by that. I am generally aggravated by a lot of things.
Ah, well...I have paid to take an MBTI test and was labelled INFJ. Every time I have taken the online tests my results have idicated INFJ. I hate labels, though.
I will forgive that cynical emoticon but I will forever hold that sarcastic tone against you. :tongue:Ah, well...
You live up to your User Name then, taking the award for happiest INFJ on Earth.
Good for you... :dry:
Lol, jk - forgive my cynical emoticon. :laughing:
Aw, dang it! :frustrating:I will forgive that cynical emoticon but I will forever hold that sarcastic tone against you. :tongue: