Yeah I finally took a test and I scored highest on Ne, then NI, then Fi, then Fe. Man, just intuition and emotions as the highest preferences. No wonders I can ping-pong out into the nethers so much. lolAlso, there is a problem when sixes do not apply Fi when needed (internal feeling versus what others might think is too important), but also then to over-think based on their internal viewpoints (too much Fi), or do not trust their Si or overuse their Si (what happened in the past will continue to happen - anxiety causing, or why I am not cautious when same thing continues to happen and I did not learn my lesson). I think that six INFP can go overboard with Ne - too many possibilities too little time - too much hyperbolas, ramblings, doubts.
What is quite confusing and tension causing in six enneagram INFPs is P part - sixes could be very committed whey they work on something, very-hardworking, and responsible; however, there is a tension between P that wants to relax and go with the flow, that hates routines, and scheduled obligations (I have to be there instead I would like to go there when I feel like it) and sixes sense of obligation toward others. This creates anxiety in sixes among other things. Sixes like independence and at the same time they like to help others (troubleshoot), which is kind of contradictory to others, but not to them. They want freedom, but they fear it in the absolute terms (they need to feel free and secure in body and mind, spirit and soul) because they feel if they do not have something to hold on they will feel lost. I am more phobic but could be counterphobic six - do not have a trust in institutions and organizations, and even those that I trust, it is not an absolute, but relative trust, I tend to see through the screen they put on, and relativity in everything. One thing though, I am skeptical to some things - those that limit thinking, spirituality, and horizons; consequently, I am not your typical 6 skeptic, but very open-minded to things that some people would dismiss easily because they are no limits to discovery of new things and to knowledge (science, universe, spiritual things). What happened so far in science and spiritual development, and what we think we know is just the beginning of what are we capable of understanding (That is INFP to my six that overcomes it).
I had a feeling you were a six, but I did not want to impede on your sense of who you feel you are. I know that a 4 is there in your tritype as well. I was surprised when you put in your personality icon a 4 as the primary type. I do not know your history and other circumstances in your life which led you to be a six - I think it is a rather environmental development with slighter less important genetic predisposition (e.g. my mother has propensity toward existential anxiety as well as father but they are not sixes).UFF this is so me.
They have a heightened awareness of catastrophic scenarios and worry the rug will be pulled out from underneath them when they see bad things happen to innocent people. Heaven forbid any of these things should happen to their loved ones. They have little faith things will work out on their own and are natural "what's plan B" people. They feel compelled to anticipate and figure out how to cope with potential problems as they know what could happen if they don't.