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I'm an INFP female dating a ESTJ male for 2 years now. He is everything an ESTJ should be, but better; he is flexible and always puts my needs first. I would honestly consider him the perfect man in every aspect and am deeply in love. Recently, in the past couple months, we have gotten into two huge fights where he has stated I NEED to change or he doesn't think he can be with me anymore. He doesn't like the fact that I get jealous of his many friendships with girls, who happen to be attractive. He is flirtatious by nature and also very friendly, so I can never tell which one he is actually being. He also gets exhausted by the fact that I'm good at winning every argument, whether I am actually right or not. But he is right about a lot of things; I am needy, selfish, sensitive, jealous, and stubborn by nature. I WANT to change those things about me but it will take time. He feels like I am taking advantage of him (considering he is very "whipped"). It also hurts him that I need my alone time or need space sometimes. I really want things to work out between us. We always bounce back from fights and completely make up the next day, if that helps.
I just need advice. Advice for me to learn to accommodate with the ESTJ and just advice in dealing with my INFP in general.
Thanks!
 

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