When faced with a situation like this, my usual solution is to cut the person off and walk away. Yes, I had done that with my father even though he wasn’t horrid, just full of himself and expecting far more than he was owed. (We patched things up before he passed, fortunately.) But if your mother is truly beyond redemption then...I’d remove yourself from her presence. Toxicity is contagious. Disclaimer: I don’t fully know your situation, though I am somewhat aware of events in your homeland. Be careful.When you are locked into something and freedom starts seeming scary then look into it, look deep into it with open eyes. I lost the last bit of sympathy for my mother. She is a horrid human being. So is the father. The class that is responsible for the degraded society that this is. If I was not related to them I would maintain a million miles between them and me. But they are so deep into my life. Like a leech. How can I blame the cousin who did one thing or another? It is them who are just degenerate and destroyed. They can blame me for this. I was too busy pointing all that is wrong with them for so long and never could focus on my own life. I should be able to do it now. Just once, once, please, let me out of this conundrum. Please let me out once. I will be good. I will be the best person by a long shot. Just this one job. Just this one thing.
It can change your understanding of 'you', make it better aligned with what's going on under the surface. The letters you are talking about refer to cognitive functions. All this is applicable if you are interested. The question of one's identity is has perplexed philosophers, writers, psychologists etc for ages. It is not a trivial question. The pronoun 'me' is in the objective case here. Some languages do not even have an objective personal pronoun.I have to confess that I am still not entirely sure that I really am INFP with a rather tamed Te, or not...
I could be INFP, rather improbable but possible..., could I be INFJ? No, ruled that out.., INTP? No, ruled that out as well...
But, why should I care, it is just a letter code anyway... Stupid me, stuck in perfectionism plus individualism at the same time.
Similar to 5w4 compared to 4w5..., does it really change me that much who I really am if I ever dig further into enneagram as well?
No... I am still just me.
I guess the easiest way would be to advertise the idea somewhere, and ask friends. Get a small portfolio together first to show your intent. Just an idea, Good luckI’m trying to break into boudoir photography and build a portfolio, but I’m worried women will think I’m weird. How do you ask strangers and acquaintances to let you photograph them in their intimates?😩 It’s becoming a roadblock to my goals.
Thank you for your input. Unfortunately, I don’t have a lot of female friends. Or, I did have some, but we’ve all lost touch since settling down and having kids. I’m probably going to have to shoot myself for my portfolio, otherwise I’m pretty much asking strangers to put blind faith in me. 😩 Definitely not the best timing with the pandemic. I would be masking (obviously), but I understand a lot of people probably wouldn’t be comfortable with the idea!I guess the easiest way would be to advertise the idea somewhere, and ask friends. Get a small portfolio together first to show your intent. Just an idea, Good luck
Honestly, I just have to stop ruminating on the fact that I 'strongly dislike' them. Distract myself, busy myself, anything to stop thinking about them. I want to feel neutral and unbothered.How does one stop "hatred" (towards someone?)
Have you guys ever felt that kind of hatred/resentment/anger (I'm OK with keeping the emotion underneath vague at this stage), and if so, how did it make you feel ? Where did it come in your case and how did it disappear ? Did it disappear ?
But then how does one continuously ensures to have good relationships with others ?
This person was going through personal issues, and they took it all out on me (fellow teacher) and our students. Hopefully she was an angel at home. I've never been more angry at a person in my life. (Except perhaps myself) I don't like to think of people as beautiful or ugly-looking, but she was ugly. It was because of the way she was to me and others... I could barely look at her. I had intrusive thoughts for maybe a year after I left that job and town. The thoughts were real downers. It was just a sickening experience.Have you guys ever felt that kind of hatred/resentment/anger (I'm OK with keeping the emotion underneath vague at this stage), and if so, how did it make you feel ? Where did it come in your case and how did it disappear ? Did it disappear ?
Are you a demi-sexual, they can't have relations unless they have a bond with the person. Casual sex is just not possible. I think I am one, I can't fathom the way people do hook up culture. Not saying you are a DS, but you said you are not the type to sleep with everyone and their mothers. There are a lot of demisexuals. I can't change what I am. It helps me to know that I am just that way and can't change it.I like sex. I like sex a lot... I'm not the type to sleep with everyone and their mothers, though. Kinda sucks. :S
You were so young. Hopefully, you have gotten past this. That would be very heavy to bear for young people.I always boast about love, romance, and the pride I take in children. The dream of being a father...
Back when I didn't understand periods exactly, a girl told me we didn't have to use protection based on a time in the cycle. She ended up getting pregnant and we were far too young to take care of a child.
No one else knows, but we had an abortion. As I watched her on the table, I felt like the devices took the life out of her. She was never the same after. It felt like she had just been raped and I stood by and watched.