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infp GUYS: Are you in a relationship or single?

  • yes

    Votes: 38 18.6%
  • no

    Votes: 166 81.4%

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Discussion Starter #1 (Edited)
YES = IN A RELATIONSHIP
NO= SINGLE


Seeing as how infp guys seem to have a lot of trouble finding a girlfriend because of a number of things, i am curious to find some loose (i stress, LOOSE) data that would support/disregard this theory.

infp girls seem too adorable and sought after by other types (even other infps) so i would like the females to not vote and if curious to see the results, select *VIEW POLL RESULTS* or something to that nature.

Also, if you are gender indifferent, if u dont have a penis dont vote.
 

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Not dating right now, but I have zero problems finding a date. I just shoot them down quickly because I'm overly idealistic.
 

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A choice A or B question can't be answered with yes or no...

Anyways, I am not currently dating anyone.
 

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no is single, correct? it's hard (for me, at least) to call the context clues from the way you phrased it.
 

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voted yes :p

edit: now its no.
 

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i've been single for about a year and a half. 4-5 terrible dates in a row has discouraged me to say the least..
 

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so far that's 20/20 that are single, the two ppl that selected yes did so by accident.

watttt the hell.
 

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YES = IN A RELATIONSHIP
NO= SINGLE


Seeing as how infp guys seem to have a lot of trouble finding a girlfriend because of a number of things, i am curious to find some loose (i stress, LOOSE) data that would support/disregard this theory.

infp girls seem too adorable and sought after by other types (even other infps) so i would like the females to not vote and if curious to see the results, select *VIEW POLL RESULTS* or something to that nature.

Also, if you are gender indifferent, if u dont have a penis dont vote.
To be blunt, I think that you INFP guys are still single because you don't actively try to find a girlfriend. I mean, as an INFP, I know it's hard to put yourself out there and go after someone, but if you like someone, at least try to show them you're interested! :happy: I think as idealists, we tend to hope that the "perfect person" will come to us first, but we need to put forth the effort and hope for reciprocation.

Maybe I'm just bitter because no one ever shows interest in me :unsure: Either that or I'm totally blind :mellow: Which is it? :unsure:
 

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I think it's that few people are deserving of interest by INFPs, and sometimes the INFPs fail at first impressions. Depressing results, for sure.
 

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No

Mostly because of me and the fact that I am deliberately not looking for anybody. I turn town a number of people of the opposite sex that were interested in me a fear years ago. You can say idealism, but its really realism. If I where to theoretically be in a relationship, its with the intent of finding life time companionship, I don't treat dating as a casual social activity as check in and check out like many people I notice do. It has to work up into a genuine friendship of caring into beyond that. Yeah I sound old fashion when it comes to that, but that is how far I will take it if I had to find someone right now.

The real reasons why I'm single.

1. I can't handle the strong emotions of physical and mental attraction to the opposite sex when my instincts/subconsciousness go off wanting to find love. Its very overwhelming to the point were it makes me feel mentality overwhelmed. It gets worse as I get older. That is why I can cope with this by handling romance in the stories I write. It works out very well.

2. My personality. If you got to know me, you would think I am a bit selfish depending on how materialistic and demanding one can be, but I just don't like to compromise. I don't like to go out, and if I do, it can be a quiet place, or just a walk. It does not have to be anywhere fancy. Can we just talk?

3. If I need to play the lotto (1 out of 100 chance) to find the right person, then forget it. I'm too undedicated and lazy, and everything else above me that I wrote. I honestly don't think it would make my life any better and I have things to lose, and little to gain out of it. That is how it works for me.

So that is why.
 

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Mostly because of me and the fact that I am deliberately not looking for anybody. I turn town a number of people of the opposite sex that were interested in me a fear years ago. You can say idealism, but its really realism. If I where to theoretically be in a relationship, its with the intent of finding life time companionship, I don't treat dating as a casual social activity as check in and check out like many people I notice do. It has to work up into a genuine friendship of caring into beyond that. Yeah I sound old fashion when it comes to that, but that is how far I will take it if I had to find someone right now.
I was going to say something just like this, but I'm not feeling very expressive tonight.

I've never turned anyone down, though. Never had the chance to.
 
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