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INFP in Awesome relationships.. Tell me your secrets!

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:crazy:Hello! :D So I'm 20 now and have never been on a date. I... I actually haven't even had my first kiss yet.:unsure: This is a problem because i'm a huge hopeless romantic. I want very badly to be in a relationship but I can't even begin to fathom how to do so. I'm really bad at both flirting and understanding when someone is attempting to flirt with me. I also tend to shy away from those i'm super attracted to and when I do engage in conversation i'm often very flustered and act like a weirdo. :frustrating: In short i'm painfully awkward. So my question to you, my fellow INFP's, is how do you go about relationships? If you have ever been in a situation similar to mine or even just have some good tips i'd love to here them! Thanks for your time! :happy:
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(((Just a margin note, but really wanted to say that I read all above notes... and feel so happy and proud now that some of my fellow INFPs are so wise :blushed: . Haha, so having a Fi moment! Will go on reading now :wink: )))
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2. If your relationship takes *WORK*, it's wrong. It should be effortless, if you are with the right person.
^^ This. It works even better than gut feeling...

EDIT: (finished reading other resposponses) - I think @ElliCat put it very well. It is in fact work. But it doesn't feel like one. It's growing together.
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