Yes, another INFP/ISFP thread… I know lol. My apologies for the short novel ahead. I am usually a bit skeptical of people guessing others type online, especially considering I am not the most open person, and more than likely (and unintentionally) give off a vibe completely different than I do in person. I figured it would be worth asking at the very least.
I am most certainly an I and a P; I have a well balanced F/T, but am undoubtedly a feeler. That leaves me with N and S. I have been researching the differences between the two for the past couple of weeks and am still in the dark. I think if I were to hear "real world" examples between the two, it would help me understand more so than anything else. I have, until recently, always come up as an N and have never had reason to question it until now. As I find myself slowly coming out of this multi-year rut I have been in, I for one reason or another, seem to be relating less to INFPs and more so to ISFPs.
If you had to make a vague guess on what type I might be based on these random facts... what would it be?
-One of the first things that had me doubting my being an INFP was the tendency for them to, at times, over think things. I believe we are on this earth for far to short a time to over think certain aspects of life. From my personal experiences with INFPs they would much rather contemplate such things as the meaning life and how things could be. I truly love, and admire that about them, but that is not me. I would rather be out “doing” than sitting back and dreaming about what may or could be. I was reading a past thread where an INFP stated something along the lines of reality not being “enough” for them. That took me back quite a bit. There is so much in the world that I have not had the pleasure of seeing and experiencing... it is hard for me to imagine being bored with it all, or it not being “enough.”
-I am really reserved until I trust someone fully. That is probably putting it mildly actually... I have never found it easy to open up to others.
- I have a strong dislike of conflict.
-As I mentioned above, I am unquestionably introverted... probably more so than many.
-I dislike routine.
- I feel very detached from society most days. The 9 to 5 rat race and white picket fence lifestyle has never appealed to me.
-I love humanity, but hate society… if that makes any sort of sense to you. I try to see the good in others and society as a whole, but I also hold a dark and cynical view of it all that I just can't seem to shake at times.
-Living in the here and now is a way of life very near and dear to my heart.
- My head is in the clouds often, but I do know how to keep my feet planted when need be.
-I learn best visually and hands on.
- Poor with details.
-I prefer to look at issues and debates from all angles. I find it quite easy to respect views and opinions different from my own. Morality and "right and wrong" are both subjective in my eyes.
-I try much too hard to please too many people at once (not a trait that I see as positive to be honest.)
-I do not believe ones like of theory is a good indicator of N vs. S. If it helps any though I do enjoy theory and the abstract- in doses. I enjoy intellectual pursuits, reading, and general learning on my own basis. If a topic does not spark my interest right from the beginning I am likely to “put it on the shelf” for later (which usually means that I will not in fact come back to it.)
-No interest in material beauty or possessions. I do appreciate natural beauty though, nature especially… there is little I would rather do then go for a long walk through the woods or to sit back at the beach and listen to the waves crash to shore (I will take that serenity and raw beauty over a stack of Philosophy books any day.) The sounds, colors, smells, and overall feel of nature has a way of consuming and moving me in a way that I cannot put into words.
I suppose that is all I can think of for now. If you've read all this, I truly do appreciate it (and if you didn't I don't blame you at all lol). I am not certain if any of the above is relevant enough for you to even make a guess. If it isn't, do feel free to ask me any questions you find necessary. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts... Thanks
I am most certainly an I and a P; I have a well balanced F/T, but am undoubtedly a feeler. That leaves me with N and S. I have been researching the differences between the two for the past couple of weeks and am still in the dark. I think if I were to hear "real world" examples between the two, it would help me understand more so than anything else. I have, until recently, always come up as an N and have never had reason to question it until now. As I find myself slowly coming out of this multi-year rut I have been in, I for one reason or another, seem to be relating less to INFPs and more so to ISFPs.
If you had to make a vague guess on what type I might be based on these random facts... what would it be?
-One of the first things that had me doubting my being an INFP was the tendency for them to, at times, over think things. I believe we are on this earth for far to short a time to over think certain aspects of life. From my personal experiences with INFPs they would much rather contemplate such things as the meaning life and how things could be. I truly love, and admire that about them, but that is not me. I would rather be out “doing” than sitting back and dreaming about what may or could be. I was reading a past thread where an INFP stated something along the lines of reality not being “enough” for them. That took me back quite a bit. There is so much in the world that I have not had the pleasure of seeing and experiencing... it is hard for me to imagine being bored with it all, or it not being “enough.”
-I am really reserved until I trust someone fully. That is probably putting it mildly actually... I have never found it easy to open up to others.
- I have a strong dislike of conflict.
-As I mentioned above, I am unquestionably introverted... probably more so than many.
-I dislike routine.
- I feel very detached from society most days. The 9 to 5 rat race and white picket fence lifestyle has never appealed to me.
-I love humanity, but hate society… if that makes any sort of sense to you. I try to see the good in others and society as a whole, but I also hold a dark and cynical view of it all that I just can't seem to shake at times.
-Living in the here and now is a way of life very near and dear to my heart.
- My head is in the clouds often, but I do know how to keep my feet planted when need be.
-I learn best visually and hands on.
- Poor with details.
-I prefer to look at issues and debates from all angles. I find it quite easy to respect views and opinions different from my own. Morality and "right and wrong" are both subjective in my eyes.
-I try much too hard to please too many people at once (not a trait that I see as positive to be honest.)
-I do not believe ones like of theory is a good indicator of N vs. S. If it helps any though I do enjoy theory and the abstract- in doses. I enjoy intellectual pursuits, reading, and general learning on my own basis. If a topic does not spark my interest right from the beginning I am likely to “put it on the shelf” for later (which usually means that I will not in fact come back to it.)
-No interest in material beauty or possessions. I do appreciate natural beauty though, nature especially… there is little I would rather do then go for a long walk through the woods or to sit back at the beach and listen to the waves crash to shore (I will take that serenity and raw beauty over a stack of Philosophy books any day.) The sounds, colors, smells, and overall feel of nature has a way of consuming and moving me in a way that I cannot put into words.
I suppose that is all I can think of for now. If you've read all this, I truly do appreciate it (and if you didn't I don't blame you at all lol). I am not certain if any of the above is relevant enough for you to even make a guess. If it isn't, do feel free to ask me any questions you find necessary. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts... Thanks