firstly, i'm sorry for my poor english, i'm Indonesian.
recently i was breaking up with my girlfriend(INFJ), after 4 years of long distance relationship, it's hard to get over it.
People said that INFP and INFJ should be able to get along well, but it didn't seem to be true to me.
I'm starting to wonder, actually how to start a relationship when you're an INFP male?
I find it hard to get close to the girl that i have a crush on and yes I've never confess to a girl before, they're the ones confessed to me and again sadly they're the one to start the move. I'm close to many girls but i suspect they think of me no more than just a friend, and I feel awkward to get even closer to "the one".
Second, does INFP male has any best match other than INFJs?
Third, how to get rid off the perfectionism in me? Because it's really annoying to be an idealist in a relationship
recently i was breaking up with my girlfriend(INFJ), after 4 years of long distance relationship, it's hard to get over it.
I'm starting to wonder, actually how to start a relationship when you're an INFP male?
I find it hard to get close to the girl that i have a crush on and yes I've never confess to a girl before, they're the ones confessed to me and again sadly they're the one to start the move. I'm close to many girls but i suspect they think of me no more than just a friend, and I feel awkward to get even closer to "the one".
Second, does INFP male has any best match other than INFJs?
Third, how to get rid off the perfectionism in me? Because it's really annoying to be an idealist in a relationship