I'm an INFP myself (female), but I'm having some relative trouble pinpointing why my sister's male INFP friend is suddenly being rude towards me. Perhaps I am taking it the wrong way or out of context, but I'm finding it difficult to truly understand his intention and such has been really bogging my mind. He basically told me that I was fake, and that he sees right through me, as well as joked harshly about my long distance relationship (which is rather difficult on me due to the fact that it hurts having a partner so far away). I know that many people generally have qualms with Fi and INFPs attempting to be "too original," but I promise that I always try my best to realize my own hypocrisy, as well as accept it from others if they point something out to me about my behavior. The thing is, he never mentioned why he exactly thought that about me. I can say that I perceived my behavior to be rather normal, and in a comfortable state at the time when he said those things to me. Another concept that baffles me is that he hardly knows me. I've met him about three times, and we seemed to have gotten along quite well, and I'm not sure what exactly happened. For me, it's not as much him calling me fake that bothers me (although it still sort of does), but the reasoning behind it. I just feel as if it came from nowhere, which hurt more than having him properly explain it. Could anyone supply perhaps a different perspective of the situation? Thanks in advance!