So an ENFP lady after being friends for only a few months now successfully cracked my INFP shell. I shared some unconventional feelings on suicide that I've never shared with another living soul. This was three days ago.
Now I can't say that we talk on a daily bases. And in the past the conversations have always been one sided with me doing most of the listening and her doing most of the talking. (ya'll are good at that) I'd like to think that I had become a foundation for her with her relationship hardships. (Note: I'm gay, so she may see me as safe.)
The overall point being that I haven’t heard from her since. I understand it has only been three days, which we've gone longer without communication in the past. But I feel that somehow I may have made her uncomfortable. Maybe she finally got a look into the deeper levels of my conscious and found me different from what she thought she would find.
The question is really one of what should I do next? Do I wait to see if she initiates a conversation or do I initiate one. Do I bring up the conversation and ask her what her feelings are about what was said? Or do I let it go as though it hadn't happened?
I know that our types are a lot alike, that we have virtues that if crossed will cause us to pull away, but in the case that I have not gone against one of hers what do you feel my next step should be?
Now I can't say that we talk on a daily bases. And in the past the conversations have always been one sided with me doing most of the listening and her doing most of the talking. (ya'll are good at that) I'd like to think that I had become a foundation for her with her relationship hardships. (Note: I'm gay, so she may see me as safe.)
The overall point being that I haven’t heard from her since. I understand it has only been three days, which we've gone longer without communication in the past. But I feel that somehow I may have made her uncomfortable. Maybe she finally got a look into the deeper levels of my conscious and found me different from what she thought she would find.
The question is really one of what should I do next? Do I wait to see if she initiates a conversation or do I initiate one. Do I bring up the conversation and ask her what her feelings are about what was said? Or do I let it go as though it hadn't happened?
I know that our types are a lot alike, that we have virtues that if crossed will cause us to pull away, but in the case that I have not gone against one of hers what do you feel my next step should be?