[Tig]

I've misjudged the closeness of friendships before, I've had people tell me that I'm their best friend when I look to them as more of a casual friend. Maybe she was just shocked to have been let in on your pain and doesn't know how to react. It could be something completely different! I say just talk to her about other stuff to get the conversation going again, she's not likely to ignore what you've said completely