Whenever I've lurked on INFP forums I inevitably read posts that I can easily relate to. Sometimes I am almost amazed because the viewpoints can be so similar to my own it's almost as if I could have written it myself. There is an openness on these forums with respect to our feelings, impressions and disappointments. Now this is also the way I tend to be with friends in one on one situations, pretty open and self-revealing (to a point of course). But when thinking about other INFPs I've known IRL, and there have only been a couple I knew actually tested as such, they seemed very closed, not very intuitive about much, not too many interesting insights like I'd expect. I know every INFP is slightly different, but these INFPs didn't strike me as INFPs as I've come to know them on internet forums. Both of these INFP women had strong interests in education, were open minded, kind to animals and children, but sort of judgmental. They made me wonder if I was really an INTJ, INTP or ENFP.