I admire ESTJs greatly. Unfortunately, it can seem, at times, like they get a bad reputation, even when they're nothing but kind and courteous and certainly not monsters. Considering the relatively small number of ESTJs on this forum to begin with, I may receive a limited response, but I was wondering several things of this fellow xxTJ type.
- Supposedly, ESTJs have issues with control. I have seen myself, through the ESTJs I know, that they prefer to have hold of the reigns in most of what they do (which can cause many arguments, at times). Specifically, as an ESTJ, do you find you have a desire, or even need, to have control? Or is it more of a perpetuated myth that ESTJs MUST have control?
- Plenty of threads in this forum seem to be about romance and compatibility between types. Honestly - how much do you care about love within your life? I wouldn't put much stock into type compatibility myself, but in personal experience, do you find you have a preference for any type in particular, friendship or romance?
- Functions. ESTJ functions follow this pattern, supposedly: Te-Si-Ne-Fi. How do you feel these functions, such as Te and Si, manifest in your interaction with the world?