I would never do a performing major. They usually result in you waiting tables. I seriously thought about majoring in acting. However, I might take an acting class though, just because you said this and that it might get you over sensitivity. Usually, fear and self doubt is a defeater for me, and I do bad with anyone whom constantly criticizes or yells at me. I like to play pool a lot with some ESTP's and they'll bust your balls the entire time. It's helped me to somewhat get over criticism. I couldn't have someone yelling at me all the time though or I would seriously fight with them. This may be a symptom of my PTSD.
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The PTSD makes me more sensitive to confrontation. Anyway, I think that when I get more money though, I want to take up a hardcore martial arts class. Nothing will desensitize you to fighting, more than fighting itself. I still want to take up an acting class as well, but I'm not sure that I'd actually want to be an actor because that is a very hard career field to make any money inHey, I never claimed to be good with my Pness. Perhaps I could learn to be more careful with it.
See there? ^^^ I just took it like a man. *runs away to have herself a good cry*
Ikr? An ESTP just busted my Pness.:crazy:
Maybe some sort of a boot camp? The army? Wouldn't it be impossible to fight them back?
And just to let you know, no matter how hard my teacher was on my technique, she has always respected me as an individual. My running coaches do this as well. I know they are just trying to help me run better. But I think this is key in taking criticism. Critiques on technique or form should be separated from judgement of the person.
And don't use your PTSD to excuse your bad behavior, young man. Don't you know that is what our ADHD diagnosis is for? (It gives it a lighter tone whilst maintaining an excusable edge :wink
P.S. You got somethin against waiting tables? I've paid many a bills doing my time as a table top executive. It's something you can also do while you're in college :wink:
No, I can't join the army because I have some physical and mental conditions. Also, I would wait tables when paying my way through college but many performance majors often wind up moving to California and in hopes of being the next big star and wind up waiting tables. Acting is a really lousy major unless you've really got what it takes. Many say because of my real life entertaining personality that I should be an actor. I might take up a couple acting classes, but it's just too damn hard to break into to major in. As I said before though, I do plan on taking up a martial art though. I'm sure that will get me used to the idea of constant fighting.Hey, I never claimed to be good with my Pness. Perhaps I could learn to be more careful with it.
See there? ^^^ I just took it like a man. *runs away to have herself a good cry*
Ikr? An ESTP just busted my Pness.:crazy:
Maybe some sort of a boot camp? The army? Wouldn't it be impossible to fight them back?
And just to let you know, no matter how hard my teacher was on my technique, she has always respected me as an individual. My running coaches do this as well. I know they are just trying to help me run better. But I think this is key in taking criticism. Critiques on technique or form should be separated from judgement of the person.
And don't use your PTSD to excuse your bad behavior, young man. Don't you know that is what our ADHD diagnosis is for? (It gives it a lighter tone whilst maintaining an excusable edge :wink
P.S. You got somethin against waiting tables? I've paid many a bills doing my time as a table top executive. It's something you can also do while you're in college :wink:
lol why the hell do other ENFP's always want to help you design your life and complete your life goals. I was just having a conversation with an ENFP room mate of mine just last night on this same subject.I find the idea of "sleep" to be relative. It depends on what you mean by that.
I'm also about to perform too. But I will take a bitty break from aerobics while I do that. I made my life so that if I have to take time off to perform I can do that.
I dunno. Would you like me to help design your life? I keep offering but you're so damn stubborn. :laughing:
I guess that they don't call the ENFP "The mentor" for nothing. Your life already seems very well designed. You seem to be like the Martha Stewart of Life crafting.Because we live for it and it's fun. We are good at it too.roud:
I'll design your life if you design mine? :laughing:
lol, is your brother an ESTP?I've been very desensitized to insults. I routinely get called a "piece of shit" by my brother. I routinely get physically and emotionally abused by my brother. I have to pretend to love my brother. If I fight back, I get beaten three times as hard and then he tries to make me feel like I'm the reason he has to be so cruel to me.
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I don't get any respect from him. He barely listens to our parents; taking advantage of them and frequently driving my INFJ dad to near insanity. I get baby talked down to because he thinks I'm on the level of a 10 year old at my best. He thinks I'm weak. I'm the smallest and weakest one in the family. He's the biggest and strongest one in the family. He could beat up dad, who is 6'2" and 200 pounds and works out routinely. He expects me to give him everything he wants because I'm weaker and younger than he is. This has been going on for about as long as I can remember. Fighting back makes it worse. I can't leave. Adults don't do shit. They tell you to tell them when he does stuff, but you do and they don't do anything about it. If I can't get my brother to stop his abuse, I'm going to put him in the hospital.
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