So a few weeks ago I got my mother to take the Myers-Briggs Personality Test and, as expected, she is an ESFJ. We don't get along at all because we polar opposites. I know one shouldn't say this about their mother, but even the sound of her voice makes me cringe and I'm relieved when she leaves the house. She is very controlling and talks to me like I'm her property, (which I absolutely hate) and forces me to give her a kiss goodnight every night and tell her that I love her. If I don't, she gets angry at me and goes on a rant about how she is the mother and that I'm supposed to appreciate and love her... blah blah blah. She annoys me when she talks about her problems and she's always telling me to smile when there's nothing worth smiling about. I just want to know how I can get her to stop being so controlling and how to avoid arguments with her.