On second thought - I edited this post to make it a lot shorter; My INTJ friend has been evasive. We have a road-trip planned to the Grand Canyon that has been on for the past 3 months, but all of a sudden, she's being very, very evasive, despite her initiating this trip. I'm giving her the space for now, because I feel everyone needs some space when they are acting like this, but overall, I am very confused at her behavior. She hasn't been returning calls, emails, texts or voicemail. I usually try calling/texting once, and wait a few days before trying to email or leave her a voicemail. It's been frustrating for me, because we have less then a week to the trip but we haven't even talked about when we're going, or what we might want to do there, or frankly, if she still even wants to go.
I guess it's always been tough with her, because I always feel like I am running into a wall when I talk with her. The most recent email from her threw off the plans completely - she said she still had to decide whether she was driving or flying there (even though the original plans that she told us was a roadtrip; we weren't even aware that this decision still had to be made, because she had been insisting she wanted to drive us). I am really not sure what is going on with her at all, but she is always really bad about communicating when we make plans. She keeps telling me she really wants to go, but she's always pushing me off, telling me she'll talk or email me back "later" (which she never does) or that she needs to ask for her parents permission (which I think is an excuse).
I guess I'll leave this post open-ended; any feedback, advice or insight would be appreciated.