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[INTJ] INTJ and Flirting

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Flirting? What is it? How does it work? What is the purpose? Do other INTJs do it? Do other types experience this with INTJs or do it with INTJs? I would like to know more about this subject of flirting. (The "INTJ and Dating" thread lead me to this idea, so I decided to start a new thread right here, right now.)

I have zero understanding of this concept of flirting.

It seems there is a crazy-flirting scale, as a certain type may have more craziness, they also have more flirting tendencies; that's all I have.
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I like flirting because it is a socially-sanctioned way to play with people's heads.

For real, though, I think it's a fun way to practice my social skills and learn how to be friendlier and more outgoing (so that people like me more than they did when I was a teenager).

In my opinion, it's a bit of a lost art and most people aren't very good at it. Most of the best flirting I've experienced comes from well-mannered, charming, old grandfatherly types (although it's possible that they're the only men who find me appealing). I guess I'm also a huge flirt for very 4ish reasons: I like to perform and I love feeling like the centre of attention.
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