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It sounds to me like it was more or less headed towards that direction anyways, with him moving away. If he had planned to keep the relationship despite the added distance, it would have been discussed—some compromise or meet-up plans should have been at least mentioned. That he took the break-up so readily and refused to remedy that “mistake” on your part after your drunken episode tells me he wanted the break-up anyway. It was a flat out no.

Also, you say there weren’t concrete confirmations of how you both felt about each other romantically. I’m not sure about that—I like making things clear. In fact, I’d need it to be clear. Romance is hard enough as it is without extra guesswork. Not that INTJs cannot play around or get into undefined or physical-only relationships at all, but it points to how seriously the relationship is taken at least.
 
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