While this thread is up, I am curious: I am my INTJ's first girlfriend, but things have been going great for about 2 years so far, and I don't see there being much issue in the future if we go at this rate. In general, would he be likely to break up with me eventually to see what else there is out there (and not want to settle with me because I am the first), or if I seem to be doing the job efficiently enough (and I do know he loves me) do I probably not have as much to worry about?
I know it probably sounds stupid to ask that question, but I know his brain works differently from mine, so I thought it'd be nice to get some input.
I know there is nothing I can do either way if he decides otherwise, and I just want him to be happy, but while I have been very happy with the relationship, I occasionally feel a tad insecure when I think about that possibility. I don't bother him with it though..
((Related to INTJs and dating in the sense of the possibility of him choosing to go back to dating so he gets more of a chance to "see what's out there"))