I think to decide between feeler and thinker is this: Ask yourself WHY do you give advice and support to people that ask for it? That's how I figured out i'm a thinker. If someone has a problem, i gladly help, not because I care about them necessarily but i think i'm very good at seing things objectively and rationally. Not that i'm showing off but that's just how my mind works, it analyzes things, sees the solution and then i say it. I see people as things, things with problems that i need to solve, i don't give hugs or compliments, i give advice. i almost enjoy when someone has a problem and they come to me, it gives me something to analyze, compare, contrast, and help with a solution. feelers give hugs, pats on the back, and emotional support like "oh, it's gonna be ok" and "i know you can do it" type things, i just say it how i see it and most of the time i don't realize how "cold" i come off. but i know no other way, i don't know how to sugarcoat things, and don't even wanna know.