I dated an INTP for four years, he broke up with me this January. We had only ever been with each other, never dated anyone else and our relationship had always been long distance, which worked out fine as we were both in college. He's 24 (I mention this because I believe age may be a big factor, not really sure) and he broke up with me because: we weren't really moving forward (no forseeable living in the same city, marriage ect), and he wanted to be selfish for now, he did not want a girlfriend at all. Period. I was devastated but I'm healing slowly. He calls from time to time (3am, that ole' "Alcohol Induced Extroversion" So true for INTPs I swear) and he says that he's still in love with me, he doesn't know what he wants at the moment, I was the best girlfriend he could ask for; all in all very flattering stuff that I want so bad to be true. I guess what I am asking is, if an INTP breaks up with someone (especially to focus on themselves and be selfish for a while) is there a chance at all of the relationship being rekindled, even years down the road?
I think if there were once feelings and a strong attachment that maybe it can exist again. What are INTPs thoughts on this situation? Should I hope for the best, or just expect the worst?
I think if there were once feelings and a strong attachment that maybe it can exist again. What are INTPs thoughts on this situation? Should I hope for the best, or just expect the worst?