I spiral between the two also, but I kind of like both forums. So I'm going to have to continue playing on both sides.Hi! I've been going back and forth between thinking I'm an intp and thinking I'm an istp for a few years now. It took joining an intp group and reading their posts for a couple weeks to realize that I am not like those people. I've been reading the posts here and I think I like it here better. Anyway, nice to meet ya!
All of this I agree with 100% and couldn't have said it better so thanks for doing all my work for me. You're the man.Few things get me excited...people assume I'm depressed because I'm so nonchalant and low-key.
At times I can be the sharpest person in the room, and other times utterly aloof to the point of downright goofiness. With women that is no different. I'm in a relationship, but in general I am an imbecile when it comes to women. Its not that I'm clueless...I just don't think too well on my feet when it comes to them.
For me, in a lot of situations hind sight is 20/20. I've missed out on many relations and lucrative oppurtunities in general because I tend to over-analyze situations.
I enjoy my space, but I often enjoy the company of others...I just rather not be the subject of conversation or leading the discussion...unless I am truly passionate about that subject. I like to watch and observe people, espcially in social gatherings.