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Hi everyonnnneeeee....so, I've just started seeing an INTP...I started a thread on the INTP section asking for advice about the relationship. Anyway, I was just wondering if any of my fellow ENFJ's have been in a romantic OR platonic relationship with an INTP and what you're frustrations were or what you really enjoy/ed about them.
I personally love how he can help me reign in my emotions and look at things objectively, especially when I'm stressing out. And I love how I have helped him understand HIS emotions more. He also helps me think deeply and very analytically on a subject, while I help him understand the emotions that come with it. Also, I think that his T has helped me not feel so scared to reveal the way I feel and my thoughts to him.
But, at the same time, I get really upset sometimes at how objectively he can look at our relationship. I wish he could let himself just get carried away in the romance and feeling every once in a while! :blushed: Because I know that once I am committed I am willing to try my hardest to make it work, so I tend to get a little carried away thinking about the future, haha. :blushed: But I have explained to him that I am not always expecting these things to happen - I just like to think about them. I'm not one of those people who afterwards will be like BUT YOU SAID WE WOULD LIVE TOGETHER, etc. I tend to get over things quickly....anyways
I find that the things that we bring to the table make us a very good couple.
Anyways, I'm interested in hearing about all of YOUR experiences with INTP's :laughing:
I personally love how he can help me reign in my emotions and look at things objectively, especially when I'm stressing out. And I love how I have helped him understand HIS emotions more. He also helps me think deeply and very analytically on a subject, while I help him understand the emotions that come with it. Also, I think that his T has helped me not feel so scared to reveal the way I feel and my thoughts to him.
But, at the same time, I get really upset sometimes at how objectively he can look at our relationship. I wish he could let himself just get carried away in the romance and feeling every once in a while! :blushed: Because I know that once I am committed I am willing to try my hardest to make it work, so I tend to get a little carried away thinking about the future, haha. :blushed: But I have explained to him that I am not always expecting these things to happen - I just like to think about them. I'm not one of those people who afterwards will be like BUT YOU SAID WE WOULD LIVE TOGETHER, etc. I tend to get over things quickly....anyways
I find that the things that we bring to the table make us a very good couple.
Anyways, I'm interested in hearing about all of YOUR experiences with INTP's :laughing: