So I was surfing the web trying to read up on relationship advice and I ran across this relationship advice
"The right thing can come at the wrong time. Be prepared to let it go.
Just because you are on one path, don't put blinders on and block the view of other avenues."
I am highly irritated by advice like this because I think it's a TOTAL load of crap. If I met the right person, why would I (in my sane mind) let go of him and think "oh there will be others"?!?
I'm just highly frustrated and irritated by this kind of advice and by people who are ABLE to think like this. Do they just have NO standards in picking a mate? I mean it hasn't been my experience or in my good luck to find quality friends LET ALONE a quality man. I'm just confused and irritated at how someone could give that kind of advice?
I view my relationships like gold, there's never a WRONG time for gold to come along your way you know? I'm just baffled by this line of thinking, it's extremely frustrating to think that a man I may meet in the future who I feel strongly for and who feels strongly for me could just say "ah, well... right woman, wrong time.. sorry hun, I guess this is goodbye! Oh and by the way, I shouldn't block the view of other avenues." The thought of that alone just makes me want to give up on finding love all together UGH.
So INFJ's, does advice along this line annoy you? If so why? If not, why not? What are your views on "the right man/woman at the wrong time"?
"The right thing can come at the wrong time. Be prepared to let it go.
Just because you are on one path, don't put blinders on and block the view of other avenues."
I am highly irritated by advice like this because I think it's a TOTAL load of crap. If I met the right person, why would I (in my sane mind) let go of him and think "oh there will be others"?!?
I'm just highly frustrated and irritated by this kind of advice and by people who are ABLE to think like this. Do they just have NO standards in picking a mate? I mean it hasn't been my experience or in my good luck to find quality friends LET ALONE a quality man. I'm just confused and irritated at how someone could give that kind of advice?
I view my relationships like gold, there's never a WRONG time for gold to come along your way you know? I'm just baffled by this line of thinking, it's extremely frustrating to think that a man I may meet in the future who I feel strongly for and who feels strongly for me could just say "ah, well... right woman, wrong time.. sorry hun, I guess this is goodbye! Oh and by the way, I shouldn't block the view of other avenues." The thought of that alone just makes me want to give up on finding love all together UGH.
So INFJ's, does advice along this line annoy you? If so why? If not, why not? What are your views on "the right man/woman at the wrong time"?