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At first I was just gonna rant my "is it just me or..." in a thread and then I was like, "oooh why don't I start a thread like "you know you're a..."

So here I am.


Just post your own "Is it just me or..." question and hopefully this will be entertaining.







Is it just me, or are other ENTPs completely oblivious to flirting? Or just their surroundings in general?

Sigh.
 

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Is it just me, or are other ENTPs completely oblivious to flirting? Or just their surroundings in general?

Sigh.
I can be oblivious to my surroundings but not to flirting. I like to play around with how I respond to it, sometimes I 'play dumb', pretending I don't notice it to see how the other person will respond or if they'll make it increasingly more obvious. It's kind of a fun give and take game for me. Although around people I actaully have serious interest in I don't really flirt, I prefer just straight up getting to know them without superficial flirting

Hmm, is it just me or can no one else think of a good 'is this just me' thing??
 

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Is it just me, or are television series getting increasingly and needlessly raunchy?

I mean-- Mindless sex scenes are detracting from the story and/or intellectual value! Have some artistic decency, for goodness sakes!
 

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Is it just me, or are television series getting increasingly and needlessly raunchy?

I mean-- Mindless sex scenes are detracting from the story and/or intellectual value! Have some artistic decency, for goodness sakes!
Any shows in particular? I don't watch much tv so i'm just curious
 
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My sister is an ENTP and she flirts without knowing it sometimes and doesn't notice when others are flirting, unless it is directed towards her.

Is it just me, or do ENTPs feel threatened by those of my type, INFPs?:sad:
 

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It's my sister, she has these contradictory attitudes towards me. My ISFJ older sister always tells me, "She's jealous"? But jealous of what? She loves bouncing her ideas off me because I'm a good listener, but is usually completely ignorant of my feelings and what I value. She constantly suspects me of lying to her, which I see no grounds for. She often condescends to or insults me, often later saying, "Not really, I was just being mean." But for the most part we get along and have a healthy relationship, albeit many disagreements resulting in cat fights.
Any thoughts on why you might act that way to someone?
 

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If a serial younger male sexer stumbled across me by chance, he will have, proverbially, hit the mother fucking jackpot. I'm am completely oblivious to the art of coy and people's intentions when it comes to sexy time. I'm almost certain I'm not half as charming as I'd like to think I am and that most of my past friends were secretly after my dick. (including my ex-bestfriend's family, who fucking adored me {and the mother's extensions}).
 

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Is it just me, or do ENTPs feel threatened by those of my type, INFPs?:sad:
I wouldn't say threatened.
There are three INFP's I know that I would call friends. I have my issues with one of them, but I still like her.

Really it's just that I can not understand Fi in the slightest, so if there's a disagreement it's incredibly frustrating.
 

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It's my sister, she has these contradictory attitudes towards me. My ISFJ older sister always tells me, "She's jealous"? But jealous of what? She loves bouncing her ideas off me because I'm a good listener, but is usually completely ignorant of my feelings and what I value. She constantly suspects me of lying to her, which I see no grounds for. She often condescends to or insults me, often later saying, "Not really, I was just being mean." But for the most part we get along and have a healthy relationship, albeit many disagreements resulting in cat fights.
Any thoughts on why you might act that way to someone?
I find this super interesting.

I love INFPs. So. Much. They're the type I usually instantly click with. I've even made a thread about this in the INFP forum haha. But once you mentioned it was your sister, I could COMPLETELY see why you wouldn't get along. I think (just my opinion) that within every ENTP is a small INFP. And if I had an INFP sibling, I would probably be mean and jealous of them, too. It's hard to explain exactly. Arrggg I'm trying to think of a way to help you.

Essentially, she does love you beneath her sketchy "mean" ness. Lol. My advice is not to show fear and even try to excavate the inner shy, idealistic feeler from within her.





Is it just me, or do all ENTPs have an "inner shy, idealistic feeler"?
 

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Any shows in particular? I don't watch much tv so i'm just curious
lol, True Blood (Only saw a few episodes of the first season), probably Game of Thrones (But I haven't seen it, was just told about it), even the Walking Dead had a raunchy sex scene going in...

It's practically porno they show in a lot of shows, and at worse, there's graphic rape.

I dunno, I miss the 90s 'fade-to-black'. I'm not necessarily for censorship, it's just getting kinda ridiculous.
 
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