NO
I don't date 'purse-carrying' men. I laugh at this because I observe this in malls, and my Dad is a very 'manly' type of guy, in Construction and stuff...and he will carry anything, and wait sadly in the mall for hours on benches, while my mom peruses the shops until night-fall, but will raise his palm up gently, and will NEVER carry a woman's hand bag. I did this experiment on my dad, because he scoffed and commented once about men who carry their womens purses. Some other guy talked to me about this once too. Are you a purse holder, The Vizier?
But I think modern men are bag holders - I don't hold this against them...I just would never ask my male friends to carry my hand bag. I don't think they'd like to either - the types of guys I hang with. The younger crowd doesn't seem to object.
I was once in a lingerie shop with one of those poor souls, his girl friend was loud and was kind of tossing panties as him, and all he could do was quietly wait, and hold everything, including her purse, as she was shopping, and try to balance everything. Other places I have observed men being dragged to 'the clothing show' which is kind of like a Trade Show of designer booths and vintage buys. The males that were suckered into going were very displeased, and most of them were Purse holders.
But I wonder...are INFJs purse carrying men? Will I be able to like a man who is a purse carrier? Can I allow a man to carry my purse?! hmm...My girl friend once had a boy friend who would go through her wallet - I felt very uncomfortable when he did this, I even said something about it - Well I didn't like him, and I knew he was a controlling guy. But that is another topic. No way would I allow a guy go through my personal stuff. I like my SPACE.
And what about man purses? That is a new trend that hasn't caught on too much here in North America - but I see some of it Downtown, in Toronto, among some 'chic-ly' dressed men. That's pretty bold, like a man wearing Pink frequently - this doesn't seem like INFJ behavior, because I doubt they'd want that kind of attention!