[lady1024]

I was recently in a relationship with a man who at first was a platonic friend. We were in business together. There was an immediate attraction but we kept it strickly business. I began thinking about him almost non stop & then found out he was engaged to a woman he'd been involved with for 10 years! We remained friends & ended up spending time together for business meetings. The attraction was undeneyable & eventually I gave in to my phisical yearning to be touched by him. Oops! Well we agreed that once he got married it would end. I think that lasted as long as the honeymoon. I never wanted to be in such a shitty situation but I found myself falling in love withis man! I mean he was amazing to me & he began spending more time with me than at home. It got to the point where he almost didn't care if he got caught! He said he never knew it was possible to feel this way for another woman. She was the only woman he ever truly loved & he was in love with me as well. Confused and torn. Neither one of us wanted to hurt anyone but in circumstances like this, unfortunately, everyone gets hurt.

 

[lady1024]

Well, in this situation his wife did end up finding out & I ended it with him. He is trying to work it out with her currently. She is willing to take him back but he's still torn with these feelings. I am a monogomous person & no longer could deal with what was going on. We all have been dealing with the hurt that this caused. I miss him very much but I've accepted it for what it was & never will be. He still communicates with me from time to time & she feels as though he is always comparing her to me. He said he can't be happy without me but wants to do right by her. I respect that. Lesson learned. I'm trying to move on with my life & I wish him the best in life.