She might be an INFJ. Doesn't sound like an INTJ imo.
I'm bad at eye contact, when it comes to real conversations. I tend to stare aside as I speak. It helps to form thoughts and deliver them when the other person's face doesn't distract me. I sort of need space to think. If I look at the person as I talk about something forming in my mind, Fe+Se take over as I notice how the other person takes the info I'm giving. If there is an unwanted or surprising expression on their face, my concentration explodes and vapors in the air.
If I already know what I'm talking about (by heart), it's a lot easier to make eye contact.
I'm bad at eye contact, when it comes to real conversations. I tend to stare aside as I speak. It helps to form thoughts and deliver them when the other person's face doesn't distract me. I sort of need space to think. If I look at the person as I talk about something forming in my mind, Fe+Se take over as I notice how the other person takes the info I'm giving. If there is an unwanted or surprising expression on their face, my concentration explodes and vapors in the air.
If I already know what I'm talking about (by heart), it's a lot easier to make eye contact.
