Hello everyone, I've posted something similar to this on other boards but it has come of no avail and sort of been buried. Anyways, I need some advice. I have been talking to this girl for a very long time. Three years if I'm being honest. Anyways, I am at the point where I think I should ask her out, but I'm not sure if the method I'm using is a bit too much. She has an amazing piano at her place and I often play it for her. My idea was to play and sing Frank Sinatra's "Fly Me to the Moon" and include the question somewhere in the song. Is that too much? Is it okay? I'm an INTP which in many circles is short for "a robot without the ability to show emotion." In the past when asking a girl out I've tried asking directly and I almost threw up due to anxiety. I've also tried writing a letter. That girl hasn't spoken with me since she read the letter 2 years ago. So I believe that my anxiety over screwing up is justifiable. Seeing as I am a musician and can communicate through it, I thought this seemed like a good plan. That said, some have called it over kill, and I honestly don't know if I should do it. What do you guys think? I honestly don't know if it'll factor into anything, but I know she's an MBTI ENTP if that changes things. (I don't really know if it matters) Thanks for reading all of this and for any thoughts that you share.