I don't know about the world, but the general population is for sure against us. It's easier now that I'm older, but to be back in highschool or wherever, it's easy to see that INFP's go against every retarded standard of acting cool, being a man and being attractive to girls. My whole life so called friends have ridiculed me for being a *** and told me that all my problems are due to me acting different or 'wrong'. I know for a fact that girls who would have otherwise liked me were greatly turned off by the fact that I am so sensitive, that I try to be fair and real with them, and that I care about how they feel. I have been scolded for not being romantic when I asked if a girl if she was ready to take the next step. I have been made fun of for not being all about sex and actually wanting to be close to someone. Nowadays I am proud of my morals, and glad that I never broke my rule of don't sleep with someone if you can't say I love you.
I used to feel guilty about being a man and even ebing attracted to girls because of all the femnist crap that I took to heart. It's like we get hurt by all of the anger women have towards men, and then they reject us when we try to be what we were told they want. Sensitive men get kicked around by both sexes, I am still hurt by the way so many girls resented me for being a guy and then went out with my asshole friends. I know girls have it just as bad but of course I have never been in their shoes. All I know is that it's confusing trying to please everyone and finding out that what they say they want is not what they are attracted to. Fortunately I don't buy into it anymore, I know it's a huge double standard. My intelligent, sensitive, caring roomate and I both had incredible difficulties attracting women. We often talked about how we were rejected for being 'nice guys', but we weren't all low-self-esteem and stuff, at least not on the oustide. It didn't matter, we didn't fit the mold and felt punished for it. I am still hurt by it all, but am doing my best to let it go and realize that this stuff happens to everyone. But being someone who takes it very personally when someone doesn't like me, it has been painful to realize that most guys and girls resent me for being the way I am.