Hello lovely INTJ’s! 😁
I've been so lucky to meet an intj for the first time in my life! and of all places that could happen, we met in the queue at a restaurant!
We have been together 90% of the time for the last 2.5 months - sleeping together, eating breakfast and dinner, going for walks (whatever you can do in these corona times).
I've never been this much with another person before, and neither has he. We have confessed that we like each other, and both agree that it feels like we have known each other so much longer.
Everything feels right!
He is exclusively passionate with me, and I can "feel" that his love (?).
Since we both are thinking types (I’m
an ENTP) we have a hard time talking about what we feel (but it is shown through body language).
We have talked about going on holiday together for the summer, future plans, which is a good sign. I've been toying with the idea of proposing to move in at the end of the summer (considering we've been together for 6 months constantly at that time) - his rent contract out, so he'll have to move out anyway.
The question is: Do you think there is any point in addressing / having «the talk»?
Or can we skip that stage and still go into a relationship? For many people, having a conversation where you acknowledge emotions is the "next step". However, we are untraditional types, and I am not sure what is right.
Would be greatful to hear your thoughts/experiences on this 😊
He’s a 5w4 SX and I’m a 7w8 SX if thats relevant.
I've been so lucky to meet an intj for the first time in my life! and of all places that could happen, we met in the queue at a restaurant!
We have been together 90% of the time for the last 2.5 months - sleeping together, eating breakfast and dinner, going for walks (whatever you can do in these corona times).
I've never been this much with another person before, and neither has he. We have confessed that we like each other, and both agree that it feels like we have known each other so much longer.
Everything feels right!
He is exclusively passionate with me, and I can "feel" that his love (?).
Since we both are thinking types (I’m
an ENTP) we have a hard time talking about what we feel (but it is shown through body language).
We have talked about going on holiday together for the summer, future plans, which is a good sign. I've been toying with the idea of proposing to move in at the end of the summer (considering we've been together for 6 months constantly at that time) - his rent contract out, so he'll have to move out anyway.
The question is: Do you think there is any point in addressing / having «the talk»?
Or can we skip that stage and still go into a relationship? For many people, having a conversation where you acknowledge emotions is the "next step". However, we are untraditional types, and I am not sure what is right.
Would be greatful to hear your thoughts/experiences on this 😊
He’s a 5w4 SX and I’m a 7w8 SX if thats relevant.