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Ok I’ll start with a bit of background info. I am an ENFP female and became very good/best friends with and ESTJ in about a month or so. Then I did the stupid thing and ended falling in love with my best friend. I have been stuck in this trap for about 3-4 years so far. I told him once that I had a crush on him maybe the first year it happened but it was probably confusing since it wasn’t straightforward. I kinda hinted at it again another year, but still nothing really happened we just kinda acted the same way.

So here’s kinda how he acts with me:

-NEVER texts first (I mean he does sometimes but u get what I mean)

-when I do text him he’ll answer right away or at some point and will try carrying on the conversation

-Has dated 2-3 other girls while I had a crush on him and has always been closer to me than he has been with his girlfriend’s (more touchy with me than the person he’s in an relationship with)

-Teases me A LOT

-Has asked for my opinion on things a lot whether clothing wise or anything like that
I don’t know. I’ve been stuck in this hole for a while and am trying to figure out if I should focus on still trying to get his attention or eliminating my feelings.


Help!!!
 

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Tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way. A series of behaviors as described by you won't tell anyone how he feels, that's why you're here asking. Be brave and ask him.
 

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I agree. Just ask. You MAY get the "huh?!" look for a second but then you will get a straight answer. You may or may not like it, but at least you'll know exactly where you stand.
 
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