Yeah, I'm not religious. I like the general caring vibe around religious events and people (who aren't too crazy) though but I could never commit myself to it. My mom (ISFJ) is religious and all her family are but we were brought up in a non-religious town so that was more influential than family. My elder brothers are INFP and ISTP who do their own thing and have their own mind so that also helps.
Teens-mid 20's I liked bars and music and meeting people. I've tried weed several times but I suffer from migraine and migraine got to me before the highs did, so not sure if I would actually enjoy it because I've never got that far. But I do know other ISFJs who enjoy pot. I've tried some other drugs but only once because I felt I was missing out. I'm not a risk taker at all in that context (unless it comes to alcohol, then I can be really bad and really stupid - but I guess that's because it's legal and socially acceptable and it's not seen as dangerous even though it totally is!). My worst vice is actually gambling/bingo/lottery - but even then I feel bad at spending maybe £20 which could be seen as acceptable to others. We have higher standards for what is "risky".
Oh and I SOOOOOOOO wish I had a hot tub!! I love hot tubs!! I find warmth and bubbles to be very comforting to me.
The type people commonly type me as when they hear this from me is ISFP too. The assumption is that an ISFJ can't swear or smoke or drink or have sex. If you know me I'm very Si dom. This is my typing thread you can see if any of that fits your ISFJ
https://www.personalitycafe.com/whats-my-personality-type/1293475-sure.html
I really hope at 60 I'm able to be so carefree - I find as I get older (ok I'm only 26) I do get a little more care free and less rigid. I feel like I would be the older I get as I have less to lose? My anxieties come from not being able to achieve the future I want and partaking in risky ventures which would deny me that.
And yes when I'm with someone I trust wholly and really like (which does NOT happen often) I'm very open and I let my weird side come out. That also means my "freaky" side n sex.
As I'm not as carefree nor in her age range it might be a little difficult for me to give any advice but I'm glad that you're open to learning her real MBTI and the right ways to treat her than giving into stereotypes and assuming she is something she's not.
Teens-mid 20's I liked bars and music and meeting people. I've tried weed several times but I suffer from migraine and migraine got to me before the highs did, so not sure if I would actually enjoy it because I've never got that far. But I do know other ISFJs who enjoy pot. I've tried some other drugs but only once because I felt I was missing out. I'm not a risk taker at all in that context (unless it comes to alcohol, then I can be really bad and really stupid - but I guess that's because it's legal and socially acceptable and it's not seen as dangerous even though it totally is!). My worst vice is actually gambling/bingo/lottery - but even then I feel bad at spending maybe £20 which could be seen as acceptable to others. We have higher standards for what is "risky".
Oh and I SOOOOOOOO wish I had a hot tub!! I love hot tubs!! I find warmth and bubbles to be very comforting to me.
The type people commonly type me as when they hear this from me is ISFP too. The assumption is that an ISFJ can't swear or smoke or drink or have sex. If you know me I'm very Si dom. This is my typing thread you can see if any of that fits your ISFJ
https://www.personalitycafe.com/whats-my-personality-type/1293475-sure.html
I really hope at 60 I'm able to be so carefree - I find as I get older (ok I'm only 26) I do get a little more care free and less rigid. I feel like I would be the older I get as I have less to lose? My anxieties come from not being able to achieve the future I want and partaking in risky ventures which would deny me that.
And yes when I'm with someone I trust wholly and really like (which does NOT happen often) I'm very open and I let my weird side come out. That also means my "freaky" side n sex.
As I'm not as carefree nor in her age range it might be a little difficult for me to give any advice but I'm glad that you're open to learning her real MBTI and the right ways to treat her than giving into stereotypes and assuming she is something she's not.
