How would you feel if you were married for many years and over time you started to feel a bit lonely in your marriage because your spouse no longer cared to spend time with you doing things that you enjoy. Meanwhile, another woman in your life who you have gotten to know tells you that she has feelings for you. How would this make you feel? I know that ISFJ's are very traditional, hate change, and may stay in an unhappy situation. I also know that they feel fiercely loyal to those they love. I have an ISFJ friend who is going through this and I am trying to understand what he's feeling so I can now how to help him. Any insights?