yeah, this is about where I've gotten to by this point. I get a little impatient because I like to keep moving. when most things move at slow paces i get anxious. also when I talk to people I barely know... good ole disorders...usually comes across as indifference or standoffishness... but yeah I was thinking, I think would be creeped out this early. we may see each other perform at an open mic tonight, so that should be good if she doesn't flake.Rivulet:14822626 said:I read a your post earlier today before you edited it, so I understand the situation. She likes your poems and you know her a few weeks, so it might work. For me, however, it would feel too personal if a guy that I don't know very well (even if I kinda like him) starts giving me poems, especially if they're about love or about me. It's very important not to rush into things. Give her time to learn to know you. Of course you can express your wish to spend more time together and eventually talk about your feelings for her, but I think it's better to start a little more reserved, giving yourself and the girl time to get to know each other better and only later on.
yeah, she seems genuine. in my limited experiences with her, she's more like to not say anything if she can't find something genuinely nice to say.perpetuallyreticent:14843866 said:Not sure if you edited your post again, but if you said she already likes your poems... I'd say go for it. Although make sure she's being genuine in saying that because sometimes we're shy to hurt someone's feelings over something they've created-- like art, poems, music, etc. Not saying she lied, but you know her better than we do so just feel her out and if she does like your poems already, then you're probably fine to give one to her. lol