I love my wife, and we have a great relationship, but a lot of times the vulnerability and openness of physical intimacy overwhelms me. I find that I feel very exposed and, for lack of a better way of describing it, like a scared little boy. When this happens, I usually end up curling up with her and just letting her hold me. Fortunately I'm blessed with a wife who is very nurturing and understanding, but I know she deserves more from me physically. There are times when we have sex, but I feel like usually this is because I detach myself emotionally form the experience and just give into the physical completely. But I want sex to be something that is about both of us connecting on a level that is BOTH physical and emotional. For some reason, I seem to have difficulty connecting the two. IDK if this is something that other INFJs have dealt with or just my thing, but I would really appreciate some advice.