One of my best friends who also has a love for personalities, the mind, and how people operate has dealt with some issues during his life.
It is understandable that no body's life if perfect. Yet, what my longtime friend has told me raises some issues about his stability. His family life was not what i thought it was. One of the parents was not inolved in his life ( the parents did not divorce) so instead of having a parental unit (two people) in his life to go two he had one. It is only when this parent chose to be in his life did that person make an effort to be somewhat of a parent. There seems to be issues of controlling, and verbal and emotional abuse.
My friend is quiet and very mellow. I have come to see that there is alot of distrust because of what he has gone through. You really have to earn his trust for him to let you in and get closer to him. Unfortunately he had to experience alot of things on his own.
Have any of you experienced or known someone that has gone through something similar and what have you observed?
It is understandable that no body's life if perfect. Yet, what my longtime friend has told me raises some issues about his stability. His family life was not what i thought it was. One of the parents was not inolved in his life ( the parents did not divorce) so instead of having a parental unit (two people) in his life to go two he had one. It is only when this parent chose to be in his life did that person make an effort to be somewhat of a parent. There seems to be issues of controlling, and verbal and emotional abuse.
My friend is quiet and very mellow. I have come to see that there is alot of distrust because of what he has gone through. You really have to earn his trust for him to let you in and get closer to him. Unfortunately he had to experience alot of things on his own.
Have any of you experienced or known someone that has gone through something similar and what have you observed?